Average would be the best way to describe it, but I don’t think anything will come out of it. He did three things that were complete deal breakers for me. I know it may seem silly, but I just have to have these three things that need to happen to go out with someone and he is just lacking in them.
1. He didn’t open doors for me. That is a big big big BIG no no in my book. Chivalry may be dead for everyone else, but it most certainly is not dead for me. I expect to have all doors coming out of a place and going into a place opened for me. I really do not think that is too much to ask for.
2. He doesn’t like Doctor Who and said time travel was “played out”. Are you kidding me?! I adore the Doctor! I could tolerate it a bit more if you just haven’t watched the show, but to say you don’t like it at all? That is just a big no no in my book.
3. He doesn’t like Harry Potter! Let me give you a tid-bit about me: I AM OBSESSED with Harry Potter and all things related. I’ve read the books at least 20 times each, I regularly watch the movies, I have a Pottermore account, and check Mugglenet on a regular basis. His reason for not liking Harry Potter? “I don’t understand why they don’t carry around multiple wands because everyone knows the disarming spell”. Are you kidding me? The wand CHOOSES the wizard. You cant just go around having multiple wands! To win a wand, you have to bend its will. You can only have one wand that bends completely to your will at a time!
Really there just wasn’t any kind of chemistry between us. I know those deal breakers might sound silly, but I know what I want. You don’t have to like Doctor Who or Harry Potter to date me, but I do expect you not to have a dislike of them.
Love always,
J.
Nerdy Girl in West Virginia 
Maybe you should let the guys know ahead of time – they could do some reading in preparation.
Funny story, thanks for sharing.
I def will think about that next time!
Not all guys will be perfect though. I love my boyfriend… and I love harry potter… when we first got together he hadent read any of the books or seen any of the movies. When I first learned this I thought it was blasphemy. lol Now he will sit and watch them with me but its definitely not his “thing”. But I am okay with that, we have a lot more things in common so as long as he will tolerate me with all my nerdy ways, we will always work out.
The door thing though, I think that just depends on how guys grew up, Ive had lots of guys I’ve dated and some opened them and some didn’t, (I happen to not really care either way). Keep looking and I’m sure you’ll find a keeper!
It’s not that he just doesn’t like those things, there was just absolutely no chemistry between us. We had almost nothing in common. I know I’ll find my perfect nerdy guy soon enough 🙂